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Wednesday, October 29, 2025

How Does God’s Sovereignty Work In Relation To Human Free Will?: The Parent-Child Analogy Remains Optimal For Illustrating Divine Sovereignty Alongside Human Autonomy

The provided text employs the parent-child analogy to explain God’s sovereignty in relation to human free will, depicting God as a compassionate Father who creates humans in His image with the capacity for choice while exercising ultimate authority to fulfill His purposes through discipline, guidance, and predetermined outcomes, as supported by scriptures such as Isaiah 55:8-9, Genesis 1:26-27, and Ephesians 1:11. It highlights that humans may freely accept or reject God. However, He determines the consequences, inviting fellowship and demonstrating patience for repentance, as in Deuteronomy 30:19 and 2 Peter 3:9.

Comprehending the mind of God resembles a child inquiring why specific actions are prohibited, only to receive the parental response, “Because I said so.” From the parents’ perspective, the rationale holds profound significance, rooted in experiences unknown to the child. Explaining such matters entirely is unnecessary, as the parent requires only obedience and trust that they prioritize the child’s well-being. This trust is evidenced through the parents’ provision, protection, and demonstrated love. Yet, the child, lacking a complete understanding of this depth, persists in questioning. Thus, the parent-child relationship offers the most apt framework for elucidating the interplay between God’s sovereignty and human free will, as illustrated in Isaiah 55:8-9, where the Lord declares, “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways... For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.”

God is defined foremost as a Father, having created humanity as His children. As affirmed in Psalm 103:13, “As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear Him.” As our sovereign Father, He oversees our lives with loving care until we attain maturity, remaining available for guidance thereafter. Just as earthly parents provide counsel amid life’s choices, God invites us to seek Him for insight and direction, for as Proverbs 2:6 states, “The Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding,” and as Proverbs 3:5-6 urges, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” Another pertinent illustration is the child welfare system, wherein the State assumes responsibility for orphans until they reach adulthood, typically at age 18. Scripture underscores this duty, commanding in James 1:27 that “religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.” Consequently, the parent-child analogy remains optimal for illustrating divine sovereignty alongside human autonomy.

God created the world and all within it, declaring in Genesis 1:1, “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.” He fashioned humanity—His children—to exercise dominion freely over this creation, blessing them in Genesis 1:28 to “be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” As the omnipotent One, He intervenes in the world at will, revealing Himself as He deems appropriate. Having formed Adam and Eve, the first humans, God elects to engage relationally with His creation. As the Creator of all seen and unseen, He endows humanity with attributes of His choosing, for as Colossians 1:16 affirms, “by Him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through Him and for Him.”

In crafting humans in His image, God bestowed the capacity for free choice, mirroring His own volition. As stated in Genesis 1:26-27, “Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness... So God created man in His Own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.’” This likeness enables love, obedience, creativity, and thought. God revealed sufficient aspects of Himself to humanity, allowing them to make informed decisions to reciprocate His love, of their own free will. However, when humanity opted for self-determination, God responded accordingly, imposing consequences as outlined in Genesis 3:17-19 following the fall. The crux lies in accepting God’s prerogative to act as He wills, irrespective of human comprehension.

We are the clay, and God is the potter; He shapes us as vessels for honor or dishonor. As Romans 9:20-21 questions, “But who are you, O man, to answer back to God? Will what is molded say to its molder, ‘Why have you made me like this?’ Has the potter no right over the clay, to make out of the same lump one vessel for honorable use and another for dishonorable use?” This echoes Isaiah 64:8: “But now, O Lord, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand.” The issue resides not in God’s freedom but in humanity’s propensity to defy the Creator’s directives for our good. Consider a child darting into the street without caution: a parent’s duty demands discipline to avert tragedy. Neglecting this, as in failing to correct perilous behavior, constitutes negligence under the law. Most would concur that such irresponsibility disqualifies one from parenthood. Thus, corrective measures, like discipline, safeguard the child from greater harm, for as Proverbs 13:24 warns, “Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him,” and as Hebrews 12:6 explains, “For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and chastises every son whom He receives.”

The notion of parental neglect in equipping children for life’s challenges exemplifies irresponsibility. Parents, drawing from experience, act in what they perceive as the child’s best interest, though imperfections—mistakes, failures, and triumphs—are inherent to the process. Judging a parent solely on isolated incidents overlooks their holistic life, akin to the adage against judging a book by its cover, and reflective of Matthew 7:1-2: “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.”

In the parent-child dynamic, parents typically conceive children with intentions for their upbringing, aspiring for them to become well-adjusted societal contributors—perhaps leaders, entrepreneurs, or influencers fostering positive change. However, the child’s free will may diverge from these plans. Parents guide and provide, but outcomes remain uncertain. In contrast, God’s sovereignty ensures fulfillment of His purposes, for as Ephesians 1:11 describes, “In Him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of Him Who works all things according to the counsel of His will,” and as Proverbs 19:21 confirms, “Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.”

Unlike human parents, constrained by unforeseen events, God orchestrates from the end backward, envisioning ultimate goals and interweaving elements to realize them. While parents might plan financially for education or retirement, God aligns intricate details across generations—such as marital unions benefiting descendants and myriad others—demonstrating sovereignty over time and eternity, declaring in Isaiah 46:10, “the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done, saying, ‘My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all My purpose.’”

Accepting this overarching divine control poses significant challenges. Nevertheless, if one affirms Genesis 1:1’s creation ex nihilo and the ensuing divine plan, the redemption narrative follows logically. The obstacle stems from humanity’s illusion of ultimate control over destiny. We may choose to accept or reject God, but consequences are His domain, for as Deuteronomy 30:19 proclaims, “I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live,” and as Joshua 24:15 challenges, “And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve... But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Similarly, children select obedience or defiance, but parents determine repercussions, exercising this wisely to preserve the child’s spirit, as Ephesians 6:4 instructs: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

These analogies underscore the parent-child paradigm, revealing God’s involvement in all aspects of existence—from seeds germinating through apparent death, to waves sculpting shores, to the miracle of human development and relational cycles. As Psalm 139:13-14 celebrates, “For You formed my inward parts; You knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are Your works; my soul knows it very well.” Such joys originate in God, our Father, who delights in our free choice of fellowship with Him, inviting in Revelation 3:20: “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with Me.” Tragically, free will can lead to relational estrangement, driven by immature notions of superiority, yet underscoring the patience in 2 Peter 3:9: “The Lord is not slow to fulfill His promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.”

 

While this brief look at the Sovereignty of God and the Free will of man produced a parochial view at best, it is wise to remember that the underlying foundation of the dual topic at its heart is the Providence of God controlling all that we see and do not. Thus, the subject would be remiss not to mention the Patriarch of the Old Testament, Joseph.

Stephen Charnock, in his work on the subject of the Divine Providence of God, spoke of Joseph and ‘God Accomplishing His Righteous Ends’ in the following manner.

“God has His hand in all sinful actions to accomplish His righteous ends. When Joseph was sold to the Ishmaelites, it was an act of his brothers, but sending him into Egypt was an act of God:

[Joseph said to his brothers,] “It was not you who sent me here, but God.” (Gen. 45:8)

He had sent a man ahead of them,

Joseph, who was sold as a slave. (Ps. 105:17)

Joseph ascribes his situation to God rather than his brothers. Their wicked intention was to be rid of him and to keep him from tattling on them to their father.

God’s gracious intention was to send Joseph to Egypt for the Lord’s honor and the family’s good. To achieve this, He used the brothers’ sinfulness to bring about His gracious purpose. The brothers’ intentions were wicked, but God’s end was righteous.”1

Charnock drives home the two seemingly opposing points of view through God’s Divine Providence, using man’s sinful actions to bring about Glory and Honor for Himself. While we mere particles of dust in the corridors of time may not comprehend the mind of God in matters of these, it is best to accept that we have God working on our behalf who foreordained and planned for our stubborn, stiff-necked, uncircumcised philistine characteristics, making a way for us to receive forgiveness and the hope of everlasting life. We may not know what our future holds, but we can know who holds our future; do you?


1Charnock, Stephen. 2022. p 54 Divine Providence: A Classic Work for Modern Readers. Edited by Carolyn B. Whiting. Phillipsburg, NJ: P&R Publishing.


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