Are You a
Peacemaker?
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"Blessed
are the peacemakers,
for they will be called children of God." (Matthew 5:9 NRSV)
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Jesus came
as "the Prince of Peace" (Isaiah 9:6-7) and gave the
ultimate sacrifice to bring peace between God and humanity (Ephesians 2:14-18; Colossians 1:20). God
calls his children to be peacemakers. This involves action, not just
passive compliance. Peacemakers do more than just live peaceful lives; they
actively seek to "make peace," to cause reconciliation, to end bitterness
and strife. This peace is not appeasement but dealing with and solving problems
to maintain peace. Arrogant, selfish people do not concern themselves with
peacemaking. Peacemakers will be called children of God because they
reflect their Father's character. This has a royal sense—they will share the
glories of the Messiah's kingdom.
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LIFE APPLICATION: MAKING PEACE
How do you
resolve conflict? Most people use different means for different settings.
Making peace
with your children includes defining the boundaries between right and wrong,
enforcing discipline, and affirming each child with love and affection.
Making peace
with friends includes broadening your mind to include the possibility that
someone else's ideas make sense. It means accepting your friend's explanation
at face value and applying the least hurtful meaning to the offensive words you
heard. It means taking a step toward trust, away from anger, and onto an
unmarked playing field called vulnerability. That's the risky price of friendship.
Making peace
with your spouse can be the most difficult of all. Sometimes it requires
outside help, often a lot of listening, mutual confession, and rebuilding of
love that's been burned. Too often today, the alternative is to quit.
Make peace your
aim. Not sloppy acquiescence—the Milque-toast peace of people without backbone
or principle. But strong peace—hard-won, committed to the other, centered on
God, ready for the wear and tear that another day may bring.
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Bruce B.
Barton et al., Life Application Bible Commentary – Matthew, (Wheaton,
IL: Tyndale, 1996), WORDsearch CROSS e-book, 79-80.
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"Build
your own dreams or someone else will hire you to build theirs."
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